Self-seeking communication

Wednesday August 24th 2020 6:44 pm

I posted about divorce and it is very serious. Sometimes particularly when, younger we care more about our wicked friends then we do our partner. ( The older are not off the hook) . Some believe in marriage that you become one flesh when the two of you do not know God. This should be the case but some marriages are not sanctified in God. Particularly when I was younger I had a girl who was a professional in communication and in training even police officers who had problems with alcohol or drugs of some sort. I think even officers with stress because of something that occurred on the job. She used to stress communication. And those young years she was quite the girl. I felt very lucky to have her and yes she was beautiful. She was in those times sometimes beautiful in heart as well. But I like others was living a life not saved and following the world with my wicked friends not that I was any better but we were going to night clubs, vacations and the only thing on our mind was women and partying. One of them was a womanizer. So I know what it's like. But when communication breaks down because you're ignorant and your mind is on the world it's bad for the marriage and the relationship. If you're just a boy friend and girlfriend the same thing. Now we hear about celebrities and all their crazy marriages flinging back and forth relationships. Imagine if they went through that  before they became famous. In other words imagine if their minds were only on that they never would have made it. You see I'm not idolizing what they have accomplished because God tells us to be in the world but do not be of the world. John 15.19 Not that we should be nothing. But we shouldn't think of ourselves as anything according to Apostle Paul. Romans 12:3 And I remember that girlfriend always telling me that we lacked communication. The communication was there but it was the wrong dysfunctional idiotic type. Sometimes it wasn't in sync with her requirements or what she sought out of a relationship. Vice versa. But sometimes guys have other guys when you're young pulling you away to nightclubs and a life of sin. And sometimes I did go and didn't tell her. But sometimes I would confess. She would get me back some way. You see the reason I told you this story is because in life if you have a wife you have a relationship. She's your best friend and Christ expects us to treat each other like gold. Ephesians 5:25 to 33 But people want divorce because their feelings are hurt and something is a miss. But people do not really communicate the way they should. And sometimes friends put wicked evil things in their spirit. In their mind. And tell them negative things and they build up a  separation of their partner and then it's just a tug of the string and the relationship falls apart completely. You have prayer. You have God. Do you have each other? What God has taught me when a woman that I was in a relationship with put me down that she does not determine my net worth. It's God who knows who I am, what I am and what he God wants me to be. What he created me to be. Jesus said the Pharisees appeared beautiful looking on the outside but within they were full of all extortion, all dead men's bones and all manner of iniquity. ( Clean the inside of the platter first )  The truth is so are a lot of people the same way. This is why a man or a woman must be born again or they can't see the kingdom of God. John 3:3

So there's a woman named Christine Brown and she had a husband name Cody Brown. He did not show up at his daughters operation and that broke her heart. She has said they had been working it out for years. The articles is on Fox you can go read yourselves. How sad is it that all those years of marriage has broken up a family because communication was void of action. What is in this man's heart? His daughter is important. If she has an operation he should be there. What is wrong with relationships as such. Communication is nonsense. It's me myself and I. See returning back to your own vomit. Always wanting to think only about you. Jesus Christ as described in the King James Bible had a face men looked away from and yet he's the son of the living God. He's humble and perfect in his spirit. His father was well please with him and he is the unblemished Lamb of God. The love he has shown people is what God has in store an eternity for those who love God. But people show God they don't love God when they do what they do and destroy their personal relationship between husband and wife. The  Lord is the heart of all hearts. Do you suppose we could learn something from him? He gave his own life on a cross yet we have the audacity to disobey his instructions when he is the King of all Kings.

You know I know a couple of young family members who are not saved but are in darkness. Oh yeah I preached to them at least a couple of them. You see this afternoon I ran into a few young men preaching the gospel on the streets. But after I went across the other side I did hear a few ignorant, prideful wicked people. Particularly one young fellow. But when I crossed the street and the guys were preaching there with their amplifier still there some guys were looking at them with a smirk and I said to the guys see, those young guys they're not in a club chasing women but saving souls. Those are wonderful bright young men. You see there are young men who are not sitting around saying "we were young". Somehow they found God. And they love God as well. Amen

Let me tell you something a lot of people have religion and they are reprobate people but they don't have Jesus Christ of Nazareth. That is the Jesus as described in the King James Bible . THEIR hearts have not been redeemed by the Lamb of God who takes away the sins of the world. But there are those who love God and they have a zeal to save souls. Yet they're young. Can you describe yourself as such? Yes I spoke with them AND YOU CAN TELL THEY ARE BORN AGAIN. They're wise and believe me they see. May the Lord be blessed and may God save your marriage. Stop listening to evil people that are of the devil and want to destroy your marriage. Rebuke in the name of Jesus the evil ones brothers and sisters. 5:21 p.m. August 24th 2022

PS in my thoughts it's time to save your marriage and communicate like human beings. It's time to love each other. That is if you really know what love is. It's time for both people to wake up and love God. Nobody gets away with anything. One day you're going to stand before God and give an account for your lives. God knows the wicked people that corrupt your mind to destroy that marriage. Either you love your husband or you don't. Vice versa. God is the person you go to but if you don't know God but you know not God that is a problem. The lawyer is not God. God is the eternal mind and the Almighty. In a marriage the two become one flesh and the true God sanctifies that marriage. Marriage is very important to God. Here is what God Said

" What therefore God has joined together, let no man separate . " What therefore God hath joined together, let not man put asunder . Let not that which has been joined together by God be parted by man . 

Have you communicated? Or do you just want to go out of the marriage? Are you sure you love the God of Abraham Isaac and Jacob. The God known as Jehovah. The same God that you sin against whom has shown you mercy and grace. And given you his only begotten son to save your soul. John 3:16

You see I want to add in and make it clear  I know likewise am I not saying/implying that any woman I ever was with was not a sinner. Because it was quite the opposite and they had their part too. The women I was with we're not true Born again Christians. Particularly the first one was not what you would define as a Christian anyways. Sometimes they're in an industry that serves the public. Sort of like a missionary might not be a Christian. I'm talking about a true Born again biblical Christian. And when we are talking about marriages and people breaking up over some issue as was related in this fox article we might say okay I understand. But what about the marriages that have lasted 50 to 80 years despite good and bad. Remember Christ always stressed to forgive each other. The human heart according to God's word is abundantly wicked. We might as humans look at a person and say that person she's such a nice lady or a nice gentleman. But you see God might look at that person and think they are a devil out of a pits of hell. So many people are so confused when we are talking about Christians. Not all people are true to that name. Even Christians themselves treat other Christians harshly and unjust. I wrote a few blogs on this issue and stressed the importance of watching oneself. You can see these issues are there. Back to the Bible Canada had addressed this issue as well in one of their podcasts from this month. I want to leave you with this notion that when Christ gave the parable about the field what he is really saying is this person that wanted to purchase that field loved God with all their heart mind and soul. God gave us edifiers to edify the body of Christ. Now I know what a watchman is as described in the Bible and how they were also prophets but if we have modern day Christians doing the same thing we shouldn't shoot them down. They're doing it in a spiritual sense. Also proclaiming the gospel. 5:44 a.m. August 25th 2022